I want a show with bisexuals who actually use the B word…
I’ll be honest, this post made me sound like I was unhappy. I am myself with my closest friends, but I haven’t always been comfortable being like that. I still don’t tell them everything about myself, that maybe I should, but I’m fine with that, like completely fine. I just wanted to rant because I feel like we’re constantly told that we’re not happy if we aren’t confident. I appreciate the advice, I always do, so thank you:), but I’m not in a bad place at all, I’m happy with the amount of myself that I’m putting out there because it’s me but a me that I know my friends like. I feel like I just rambled. I really love that you responded but don’t worry about me:) x
I know people say that we should all just be ourselves and not care what other people think. I know that I should say what i want(within reason) and do what i want and not care if people are like ‘i dont like that, we aren’t friends’.
I think the people who say ‘who cares what people think’ obviously have a lot of people who love them unconditionally but what if no one does love me unconditionally. I am not willing to take that risk because I would rather be shy, quiet and anxious than be all alone with no friends.
So, my message is, if you are scared to be yourself even amongst your closest friends, that is perfectly okay because you are not the only one who feels that way and maybe one day we won’t.